SISTERHOOD OF THE WORLD BLOGGERS AWARD (NO.2)

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Finally, I am able to sit down and express the joy and excitement I felt when I received my second nomination for the Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award. Having received my first one I was ecstatic, but then when I saw the notification for a second one I thought, “This is unbelievable!” Thank you Jilly Pop Music for this honor (and my sincerest apology for the delay, but I didn’t forget). Everyone go check out her amazing blog focusing on pop music.

1. If you had to change your first name, what would you change it to?

I’m guilty of the typical giving a fake name to strangers at bars which is usually Emma. However, a name I had to use for the rest of my life would probably be something like Veronica.

2. What is your favorite painting?

I love drinking wine and apes are my favorite animal so naturally the image below is my favorite.

1.0x03. What is the first record you purchased with your own money?

Ja Rule’s “Pain is Love” CD.

4. What language do you wish you spoke fluently?

Italian! I took a full year of it in college and was quite good at it (knowing Spanish helped). I only wish I would have continued taking it.

5. If you could transform into any animal, what would you be?

A bonobo! They’re considered the cousin of the chimpanzee and are very sexual creatures. I find it fascinating that the female bonobos are dominant unlike with chimpanzee where it’s the males who have the power. Don’t know what bonobos look like? I’ve got you covered:

bonobo_8678_3565046. What was your favorite candy as a child?

Hands down Sour Punch Straws! The strawberry flavored ones though, I don’t very much like the green ones.

7. How does your star sign reflect your personality?

I’m a Sagittarius and that’s reflected in my curiosity and honestly. I love asking questions and am not afraid to express myself and my viewpoints.

8. What character in a book is most like you?

I should really have many possible answers for this given that I read countless books as an English major, but my mind is blank. Maybe Ron from “Harry Potter” or Allie from “The Notebook”.

9. If you could only have one of the five senses, which would you choose?

Sight.

10. What film is your guilty pleasure?

Titanic! During one of my spring breaks I watched it every single day and 4 times in one of those days. I love Titanic, always have and always will.

My ten questions:

1. When did you start blogging?

2. Why did you start blogging?

3. What is your favorite topic to blog about?

4. What goals do you have for your blog?

5. What are 3 of your favorite blogs to read and why?

6. What are your favorite pastimes?

7. What short-term and long-term goals do you have?

8. What writer or publication (magazine, book, CD etc) would you say your style of writing models?

9. What do you do when you want to write, but lack inspiration?

10. If you could go anywhere in the world and do anything what would it be?

My seven nominees are:

https://indifferenteggplant.wordpress.com/

https://gianluca8675.wordpress.com/

https://lilypupslife.wordpress.com/

http://perelincolors.com/

https://thenewguysview.wordpress.com/

https://hailtothegynocracy.wordpress.com/

https://thespazmatazz.wordpress.com/

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SISTERHOOD OF THE WORLD BLOGGERS AWARD

sisterhood-of-the-world   Seeing that I was nominated for a blogging award truly made my day! Seriously, like cloud 9 status. I’ve had my site for some months now, but not having posted much to receiving recognition, WOW. That WordPress notification left me immediately overjoyed, momentarily speechless and just ecstatic. And now being nominated for a second one, this being my first, is just awesome. First, I apologize for the delayed response and please don’t misinterpret it as a reflection of my real attitude and excitement because thank you again and again for this incredible moment and opportunity KC, everyone go check her out! If your interests include fashion, it’s your new blog to follow, but if not it’s okay because The Eleventh Letter provides helpful and uplifting tips as well.

See the rules below:

Thank the blogger who nominated you, linking back to their site. Put the Award logo on your blog. Answer the ten questions sent to you. Make up ten new questions for your nominees to answer. Nominate seven blogs.

1. Why did you start blogging?

Writing is my passion, it’s the one thing that I’ve always felt confident about while simultaneously gaining confidence from it. Since I was a little girl I’ve written; first in my Tweety diary, then poetry and journalism class during high school, and throughout college for my English degree and the UC Davis student-run paper The California Aggie. After graduating and having become accustomed to writing for an audience, I found myself itching to make my thoughts available to anyone interested in reading. I had considered blogging before and knew that it would be the perfect way to share my viewpoints.

2. What are your dreams and goals for your blog?

That’s a tough question because when I first started I just wanted to write about anything that inspired me, but now after registering for Blogging101 I find myself wanting more followers. I love the way that the blogging community interacts and would like to be more involved as well as posting more often.

3. Do you have a specific post that you are really particularly proud of?

The Deception of Attention is one I really enjoy because I discuss the disheartening truth that much of our youth is too preoccupied with pop culture to be concerned or even aware with the happenings of the world.

4. What brings you joy?

Spending time with my family, boyfriend and friends, playing with my cat Shelly and drinking margaritas (I love tequila). Aside from writing, I also enjoy reading the news, Cosmopolitan and books (some of my favorites are The Kite Runner, A Thousand Splendid Suns and Bonobo Handshake). Blowing bubbles, learning about monkeys and apes, YouTube cat videos, and shopping make me quite happy too.

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Shelly and my Bonobo bring me joy. Fun fact: Shelly is named after “The Big Bang Theory’s” Sheldon Cooper.

5. What topic are you the most passionate about?

Love and relationship dynamics have always been of particular interest to me. I’m intrigued by how individuals in relationships (any kind) communicate and behave, even more when it’s  unequal or dysfunctional. As of late I’ve been passionate about social media and technology. I’m fascinated and frightened by the ways in which those two elements combined have affected the world. Both have facilitated communicating, learning, being updated and expressing ourselves which is wonderful and permits us to be more innovative. But I fear that we are losing a lot of the beauty and mystery that existed prior to the emergence and wide accessibility of what now seems to be essential for daily life, the Internet. For example, it used to be that if someone wanted to see the nude female body they would either have to find a woman,, purchase PlayBoy or visit an adult store, but now all anyone has to do is visit Instagram or Twitter to see women making their most intimate features available for any pervert to enjoy. That’s alarming.

6. Describe yourself in 3 words.

Outspoken, friendly and honest.

7. Now tell us what your friends would say about you.

Sassy, caring and driven.

8. What inspires you?

In daily life I’m inspired by love, music and the messages that surround us. Speaking in terms of my ambitions, it’s my loved ones and my desire to make them proud. I also find inspiration in my relentless pursue of success. I’ve witnessed many individuals capable of achieving greatness waste their life away and I always said to myself that I would thrive and move forward in life, failure is not an option. If my parents that arrived in the US illegally and don’t speak English could provide a good life for my brother and I, then there’s no reason why I couldn’t achieve my dreams.

9. How long have you been blogging?

I began blogging in June of 2014.

10. What are your dreams and aspirations?

I’m an aspiring journalist that can’t wait to become a reporter for a major newspaper or write for a major magazine. Being that I’m a California girl at heart, I would love to write for the LA Times, but who could reject The New York Times? On a personal note, I dream about traveling, being married, owning a home and having gorgeous, healthy babies.

Thanks for reading! 🙂

Lily

My seven nominees are:

https://thecinemabliss.wordpress.com/

http://betternotbroken.com/

https://secretxparade.wordpress.com/

https://jaiceharmon.wordpress.com/

https://italianhurricane.wordpress.com/

http://endangeredliving.com/

http://reneeannpierce.com/

My ten questions:

1. When did you start blogging?

2. Why did you start blogging?

3. What is your favorite topic to blog about?

4. What goals do you have for your blog?

5. What are 3 of your favorite blogs to read and why?

6. What are your favorite pastimes?

7. What short-term and long-term goals do you have?

8. What writer or publication (magazine, book, CD etc) would you say your style of writing models?

9. What do you do when you want to write, but lack inspiration?

10. If you could go anywhere in the world and do anything what would it be?

Dream On

   When I reflect back on my life I wonder if all of the choices I made were better than the alternate. Sometimes I wish that I would have sought opportunities sooner; because once I attained positions or accomplishments I thought of the time I could have spent doing those things if I had not procrastinated or honestly, been slightly afraid to pursue them. But then I remember what I always say to myself when I’m nostalgic for moments that I wish I would’ve appreciated deeper, everything is a living experience. Cliche bells ring in your head, but it’s true, it’s my truth and philosophy about life encompassing all bad choices later serving as lessons learned for future encounters. The beauty in life is that people are resilient; your success and possibilities shouldn’t be limited by bad choices (unless it’s something unforgivable like running a dog fighting pit or kidnapping), in turn life should be driven and progress from short-sighted decisions. Those seeking to better themselves and continuously striving for a dream after life obscures and delays their path are the most hard-working and determined, I speak from experience.

Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish.

   Everyone says college is unforgettable and the best time of your life, they weren’t mistaken. Approaching my second year having received my B.A. degree in Communications and English I find myself thinking about how many things I wish I would have done or become involved in earlier. For example, writing longer for The California Aggie (UC Davis), interning at a local newspaper or even blogging instead of just doing writing assignments on Shakespeare or The Canterbury Tales. But then I remember the things I did do like: write for the school paper while interning at a local Spanish TV news station, join and uphold positions in a sorority, obtain my first job EVER, graduate with a GPA above 3.0, teach an indigenous impoverished community in rural Panama along with other things. I remind myself, but not in a justifying manner, that things could have been worse as I could have graduated without any experience in what I will develop a career in. Despite my feelings of remorse for not pursuing opportunities sooner, I refuse discouragement because bad choices and life will not deter me from the ultimate goal.

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KUVS 19 Maribel Guardia (left) and I (right) during a live interview at my public relations internship with the California State Fare (Sacramento, CA). She remembered me from my internship at her station so I wasn’t too nervous.

   Everyday that goes by I think about and visualize myself in the job of my dreams, I’m not there now and not even in the field, but advances are being made to get there; it’s one of the reasons I began blogging and registered for the Blogging101 course. The field of work I’m involved in now is far from anything I imagined myself ever doing, but as long as what you’re doing is leading you to where you want to be, it’s not lost time. Many who graduate struggle to find employment or one that pays enough to meet the morbid student-loan payment due date, but fortunately that’s not my case. The job I have isn’t what I wished for, but it’ll help me be more stable in the future and with less debt. The reason I don’t love my job is why I’m making efforts to still pursue what I love. I want to wake up and be happy to go to work and I believe envisioning oneself doing whatever it is your long-term goal may be, is essential to success. It’s easy to remain at an unwanted position because of money and the comfort that comes with it, but dollar amounts don’t equate to happiness and is precisely why you have to keep your goals in mind.

   Of course, for those like me who aren’t working, but hope to one day, in a field correlating with their degrees, it’s not just up to yourself to obtain the job of your dreams. Yes, perseverance, determination and dedication may get you 95% of the way there, but ultimately someone has to hire you and believe in you. For that hiring manager, director or whomever stands between a dream and reality I say, don’t reject the graduate who spent some time away from the field their looking to return to. A leave of absence doesn’t signify complete obliteration of a dream. People change their minds and have hindering circumstances, but those who through it all still strive for the goal are the most dedicated.

A direct link to one of my published articles. It was proclaimed one of the best “campus news” stories.

   To my utmost dream reader, a future hiring editor or news director, it’s a pleasure to encounter you. Don’t mistake the time I spent away from journalism and the media as a lack of effort to be here earlier, but instead see that I have experience and in various communications sectors. Or does experience after time lose its value? Notice that I continued writing and pursuing positions involving my career interests and that after however long I was absent from the discipline, I returned. There wasn’t a day where I didn’t think about retrieving my voice recorder from my safe keeping to interview sources or reading the final product of numerous hours of researching, writing and editing on gray newspaper.

   Too often it seems that people get lost in life and renounce career dreams, but if you’re not happy with what you’re doing for a living, how can you live happy? In order to achieve, measures have to be taken.

1. Envision yourself obtaining your goal.
2. Make a list of how you’re going to achieve it.
3. Determine a date for when you want to accomplish it.
4. Take steps to cross items off your list.
5. Make connections, even if you already have some. The more connections you have, the better your possibility for knowledge of opportunities.

   “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re going to get,” but if chocolates is what you want and you find the aisle, you’re bound to savor the perfect piece to satisfy your craving (Forrest Gump).

Who I am and Why I’m Here

   Curiosity has been one of my strengths and weaknesses since I was a child. I was always that little annoying human asking “why” to anything heard and wanting to know everything possible. I say that it’s a weakness because as depressing as it may sound, knowing things can sometimes be more damaging; as the saying goes: ignorance is bliss (but not entirely). The strength lies in it being an integral part to the person I am, asking questions was my hobby until I translated into a quest for a journalistic career. Writing is something that I enjoy and always have, it just becomes challenging working full-time to dedicate the time I wish to, hence why I registered for Blogging101. I currently work in a field I have no interest staying in for long so that when I get my foot in the door I won’t be struggling to make the monthly student loan payments, eveyone starts off at the bottom right? Working full-time and a lack of structure has left me writing less and less and besides it being my hobby, numerous reporters told me that a superior writing ability is key to successful reporting. I registered and here I am completing my first assignment after graduating.

   Before I had a laptop I used to keep a personal diary, but decided once I graduated college that since I wouldn’t be read on the campus newspaper any longer, blogging was the next big thing. I’ve published a few blog entries and don’t have a concrete pattern in topics yet, but I’m highly interested in current events. I enjoy reading the news online or in print and writing responses or just writing about things that come to mind of which I feel strongly about. For example, I was very interested and up-to-date during the critical moments of the ongoing Ebola epidemic, the hostages captured by the ISIS, the influence of techonology on children and how it’s altered everyone’s life, law enforcement, crime and certain celebrities like Leonardo DiCaprio, Jennifer Aniston or Johnny Depp. I have a fondness of primates and literature. Analysis and an alternate or unseen viewpoint is what readers of my blog will find.

   Ideally I’d like to connect with people that either share similar viewpoints as myself or provide constructive criticism or challenges. It would be great to connect with individuals pursuing a career in journalism or those who have or did so in the past. The goal is to improve my writing, write more frequently and gain followers.

Global Winter Wonderland, CalExpo

   Imagine traveling the world in one day, without ever stepping foot on a plane. Some of the worlds most historic and beautiful monuments and structures all accessible for your admiration in one location at a fair price. The Christmas season custom dictates that the world be lit up by bright lights and inflatable Santa’s everywhere, but what if you’re being deprived of that sweet sight? Maybe, like me, you’re overcome with laziness and paralyzed by the cool temperatures to border the windows with Christmas lights. Or perhaps your neighbors don’t share the same spirit and don’t mind that during the happiest time of the year the streets are as dark as always. For those disappointed souls whose dormant inner child is awakened at the sight of beautifully assembled Christmas lights and whom haven’t visited the Eiffel Tower, Statue of Liberty, Wall of China, etc Cal Expo’s Global Winter Wonderland (Sacramento, CA) is your one way ticket to just that in awe striking, breathtaking, luminous lanterns.

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A lantern portrayal of the clock tower Big Ben (London, England).

Feast your eyes on miniature, but aesthetically pleasing renditions of numerous worldly recognized and admired structures in one convenient location. The wonder doesn’t end there though, aside from the views there’s also carnival rides for the thrill seekers, the conventional carnival snacks and shows that are sure to entertain all who visit. One of my personal favorites was the section featuring zoo animals and pink trees. Children are sure to love it for the exposition also includes reindeers, Santa’s house and a full section of dinosaurs. Adults will enjoy the excitement on the children’s face along with the detail of each lantern. </span><span class=”s2″>I encourage all visitors that aren’t afraid of heights, to ride the ferris wheel and experience the full beauty of the lights from up high, I assure you that you won’t be disappointed.

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      As the holiday season ends, so will Global Winter Wonderland on January 4, 2015. Hours of operation begin at 4:30 pm daily and end at 11pm Friday and Saturday and 10pm on Sundays. Currently, Cal Expo is offering a “Wonderland Special” for two admission tickets and two unlimited rides wristband for $56. Parking is $10 and not included in admission. For complete pricing information, attraction details and directions please visit http://www.globalwonderland.com. Remember to bundle up because despite the abundance of lights, it’s quite chilly outside, I recommend scarves and gloves. Cal Expo’s Winter Wonderland is located on 1600 Exposition Blvd Sacramento, CA 95815. Don’t wait until next year to see the beauty you can behold today.10899786_1011888742159763_1723119321_n